I often wonder, what is the best state of a woman?
In fact, to achieve these three points, you can be more calm, less anxiety and confusion.
Work harder and work
Why do women have their own work, in fact, everyone knows that because of work, it will generate money, dignity, and the right to free choice.
Strictly speaking, you are a strong woman in the workplace, or a small shop employee. It is a monthly salary of tens of thousands, or a guaranteed income. It is possible to point to the country, or to obey orders. It is really not so important.
What matters is not how much you can earn, but how much you have the ability to make money.
The important thing is not whether you can be pampered, but you have the strength to live independently.
The important thing is not that you can choose your own life, but you can say goodbye with a bad life when there is no way to go.
There are often girls in love, in order to retain the beloved man, he will resign from his stable work and wander with him.
Some married women, in order to run their feelings, would rather be the woman behind him, wash their hands for soup, or even be a canary at home.
There are also some young mothers who are not worried about their children, completely separated from the society, left their posts and become a full-time wife.
In fact, regardless of the cause, family, and children, how tired, how difficult, and not easy, the woman should not give up is the job.
Maybe you are just a moment of ease, maybe just want to put happiness on, or maybe you find a backing for a lifetime.
But if you lose your job, you will lose half of your confidence and security. If you have an accident and are abandoned by your husband, you will become the weak one who has no struggling ability.
A woman who has work, strength, and money can truly live independently, freely, without fear.